When second opinions don’t help
I have never felt so neutral about a man before. Usually, I have a sense of “He could be the one” or, “No way, he could never be the one!”, but this time I am just blank.
Even his looks leave me feeling nonplussed. I am neither attracted to nor repelled by them. The best description I can come up with is ‘normal’.
My friends, however, think he is good-looking. One liked the fact that he is tall and had “the build”. Another gushed over his sideburns. Yet another said he is “definitely above average”.
What does it mean when your friends are more excited than you over a man and the possiblity of you being in a relationship with that man?
Umm… what does he think of you?
Comment by PerpetualStudent — October 24, 2005 @ 1:41 pm
PerpetualStudent - How would I know? I am not about to ask him, “So, what do you think of me?”!
Comment by Scribbler — October 24, 2005 @ 2:47 pm
I think I know the answer to this one.
Either that he probably isn’t the one- or that you’re both such a good match you can’t feel any friction.
Invest a little more time and then try to figure out if you miss him when he’s not around.
Comment by sneexe — October 26, 2005 @ 3:52 pm